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75 ways to show your love

Published 07/04/2012 by Sensi Boutique

With my one year wedding anniversary around the corner I have been busy trying to find romantic ideas and gift ideas for my wonderful bride. I stumbled across this list of ways to show your love. A lot of the things on this list are free so they can and should be done when ever its possible, hope you enjoy this little list.


1. A kiss on the forehead

2. Uninterrupted quality time

3. A note under the pillow

4. Tell him when he looks masculine, sexy, or hot

5. Turn a regular day into an All-About-You day just for your mate

6. Breakfast served in bed

7. A romantic picnic indoors

8. An unexpected dinner cruise

9. Propose marriage on one knee

10. Don’t complain when he leaves the toilet seat up

11. A rose on the pillow

12. Tell her she’s beautiful

13. Pour on the chivalry (open doors, pull her chair out)

14. A bubble bath with rose petals and her favorite scented candles

15. Verbalize what your relationship means to you

16. Surprise her with her favorite flowers and candy

17. An “I love you because…” list

18. PDA (public displays of affection)

19. Heart shaped pancakes or cookies

20. A walk in the park together

21. Hold your beloved a little tighter and longer than usual

22. Do some of his/her chores

23. A handwritten card sprayed with your scent

24. Spoil each other

25. Renew your marriage vows

26. Be first to say “I’m sorry” after an argument

27. Personalize (i.e. engrave) gifts

28. Place an “I love you” flyer under the car’s windshield wiper

29. Send a surprise gift to his/her workplace

30. Support each other’s dreams

31. Make love slowly, passionately

32. Run his bath water

33. Give your spouse space when needed

34. Buy her feminine hygiene products (before she asks)

35. Bring him a cold beer while he watches football

36. Put a love note in her purse

37. Hold hands

38. Take showers together and wash each other’s back (or whole body)

39. Look deeply into your lover’s eyes

40. Always kiss goodbye and goodnight

41. Boast about your mate and your relationship to mutual friends

42. Arrange for a babysitter so you can have an unexpected date night

43.  Say how much you love each other even if you think it’s known

44. Use cute pet names for each other

45. Rub your noses together

46. Remember to say thank you (often)

47. Excuse each other’s mistakes 48. Meditate together

49. Sleep in his/her t-shirt

50. Wash her hair

51. Step outside of traditional gender roles to help each other (Cook dinner ; take the trash out )

52. Verbally reassure your lover

53. Take photographs as a couple

54. Give up the last piece of food on your plate

55. Write a short fairy tale using you and your mate as the characters (Once upon a time…”)

56. Listen more intently

57. Flirt with each other

58. Sing your significant other a love song

59. Get up early to help him/her get ready for work

60. Say “I adore you”

61. Watch a chic flick with her

62. Kiss your mate somewhere you never thought to kiss before (i.e. elbow, knee, toe)

63. Initiate affection (hugs, kisses, spooning)

64. Take good care of yourself so that you’re at your best for the one you love

65. A handmade gift or card

66. Write a sweet message on a fogged-up mirror so he/she will see it after exiting the shower

67. Cook your significant other’s’ favorite meal

68. Feed each other chocolate covered strawberries

69. Cuddle by the fireplace

70. Laugh and have fun with each other

71. Rub his/her feet

72. Create a scrapbook together

73. Start a hobby together

74. Dance indoors to your favorite song

75. Ask about each other’s day

What your sexy dreams really mean?

Published 06/25/2012 by Sensi Boutique

Aside from being a naughty bedtime treat, your sizzling visions give  a fascinating peek into your psyche. At some point, we’ve all gotten lucky in dreamland. Whether your racy reverie is red hot(bedding Josh Hartnett) or just strange (knocking boots with the guy who signs your paycheck), there’s a reason why it popped into your head. “

Sexy dreams reveal your desires and anxieties,” says Gillian Holloway, PhD, author of Erotic Dreams.“Your subconscious uses these raw, lustful situations to sort out emotions you may not be confronting in waking life.” Sure, maybe you already know dreams serve as a portal to your psyche, but you might not realize how obscure their implications can be. In fact, your dirtiest scenes often aren’t about sex at all.


Oh, and those “innocent” imaginings where you’re flying in the sky or brushing your hair? Loaded with sexual meaning. While everyone’s nocturnal fantasies and day-to-day issues vary, Cosmo asked dream experts to shed light on the most common sexy shut-eye musings. Get the scoop before bed tonight.


Getting Passionate with a Wacky Partner

A dream where you’re scorching the sheets with your boss or best buddy? Yikes. Although you may assume this scandalous vision means you harbor hot-and-heavy feelings, the actual implications are generally PG. “You probably admire a quality that person possesses and want to develop it within yourself,” explains Patricia Garfield, PhD, author of Creative Dreaming. Maybe you crave the head honcho’s success or wish you had your friend’s confidence.

On lucky nights, a Hollywood hottie, like Patrick Dempsey, might make a guest appearance. While celeb sex dreams could just be mental candy your brain has cooked up for fun, there’s probably more to it. “To singles, it’s a reminder that amazing prospects are out there, and it also clues you in to the kind of man you want,” says Garfield.

If you’re already one half of a twosome, it may point to a yearning for a trait your guy lacks or — if you’re blissfully content — affirm you’ve scored with a star-quality man. In this case, you’ve found your McDreamy.

No Place to Get Busy

You’re on a hunt for a place to have sex with your man, but problems arise that make hooking up impossible. “This suggests a loss of intimacy between you and him,” explains Holloway. “Women tend to have this dream before or after a breakup.” Although you’ve struggled to make it work, something — like mismatched goals — has prevented it.

However, if you and your man are happily coupled, the dream may indicate that there’s an obstacle you’re trying to overcome — maybe it’s a long-distance issue or even just that you’re unsure what the future holds.

Having Sex for All  to See

Right in the middle of a XXX romp, you suddenly realize you’re onstage or in a roomful of people…with all eyes on you. “If the crowd makes you self-conscious, you could be worried that people are gossiping about your relationship,” says Holloway. Think about it: Are you afraid your pals don’t like him? Did  you start dating while he was still with someone else? On the other  hand, should being in the spotlight feel deliciously naughty, it means  you have a hankering to flaunt your sizzling sex life to the world.

Cheating  on Your Man

It’s pretty unsettling to imagine getting busy  behind your guy’s back. “You usually dream of sleeping with someone else  soon after taking a major relationship step, like getting engaged,”  says Holloway. “Any uneasiness about making such a huge life change can  manifest in your dreams.” It doesn’t mean you have regrets; you’re just  experiencing normal concerns, like that you’re missing out on other  potential mates or you’ll one day discover he’s not right for you.

On the flip side: “If your man’s the unfaithful one, ask yourself if  you’re resenting him for some reason,” suggests Holloway. “This dream  can expose feelings of emotional abandonment, like maybe he’s working a  lot or you’re more serious about your bond than he is.”


Flying Through the Sky

You’ve had a mind-blowing booty session recently, right? That would explain why you’re soaring in your sleep. “The freewheeling rush you get from whizzing through the air could be a mental celebration of great sex,” explains Garfield. “The thrilling sensations in the dream are similar to the high you experience when you climax.” If you haven’t had a hot hookup lately, the aerial illusions may be related to an intense romantic encounter, like going out with a guy you really like or hearing the L word from your beau for the first time.

A  Man Holding a Phallic Object Appears

Okay, if you dream of a guy with a baseball bat in hand or a log hoisted under his arm, heads up. “It means there’s a man in your life whom you’re attracted to, but either you’re not fully aware of your feelings or you don’t want to admit you’re into him,” says Holloway. The object of your affection may be someone who is totally not your type or an off-limits guy, like your man’s best bud. And just so you know, the guy you’re secretly lusting after may not necessarily be the hose-wielding hottie in your reverie.

An Animal  Encounter

When a stallion makes a late-night appearance, it suggests you’re getting in touch with your wild side. “Galloping on a horse symbolizes that you feel alive, liberated, and in control sexually,” says Holloway. The rhythm and speed of riding feels similar to the steady tempo of sex (as does any rhythmic motion, from swinging to climbing stairs, notes Garfield), and being atop a huge, powerful animal echoes the exhilaration of being with a man.

Not all animal-related scenarios are positive though. If scaly reptiles give you the heebie-jeebies, then a snake nightmare (hello, talk about phallic!) points to worries you have, possibly about sex, according to Gayle Delaney, PhD, author of All About Dreams. “Also, most people connect snakes with being sneaky,” adds Garfield. “This dream could signal you’ve subconsciously picked up on the fact that a guy you’ve been seeing is using you for sex or hiding something about his sexual past.” Call it intuition…in fantasy form.

You  Suddenly Have Superlong Locks

Envisioning a Rapunzel-like mane while mid-REM serves as a carnal wake-up call — you have been putting sex on the back burner and are ready to devote due energy to satisfying your erotic drive. “Long hair represents sensuality and femininity, encouraging you to let your natural impulses rule,” says Holloway. So stop snoozing on your sex life and seek out the kind of action you’ve only, uh, dreamed of.

Originator: Cosmopolitan

The New Bed

Published 03/16/2012 by Sensi Boutique

Linda and I had been a couple for over a year when we decided to move in together. It had taken us a few weeks to settle on this great house with a rent to own option. The only problem was Linda wanted a different bed. She thought it would be better to start our lives together with a new one. She believed we couldn’t possibly screw under our new roof in either of our old beds where we had fucked past girlfriends and it might bring bad energy into our new commitment. I thought spending the money would bring bad energy to my bank account but I’m a pushover for whatever Linda wants.
She and I combed the local furniture stores in search of the perfect and reasonably priced bed of our dreams. It took all day and by the time I was about to fall face first into a couch from exhaustion, I heard her giddy squeal of delight.
“That’s the one.”
She pointed in the direction of the biggest bed I had ever seen in my life. It was a monster. The thing was dark, almost a black finish with thick ribbed posts that spiraled up towards a wrought iron canopy.
“Dear God, it’s huge. It will take over the whole damn house.”
I looked at her with an are you insane expression on my face.
Linda’s normally chocolate brown eyes were sparkling hazel. Her luscious mouth was puckered in a pout. She used this tactic when she wanted to persuade me into doing something I’d regret later.
“It won’t seem so big when we are in it. Why I bet it will even be cozy,” she cooed allowing her faint southern accent to thicken for effect. Her long brown hair fell seductively across her cheek as she pulled me closer, “I won’t let you feel cold or lonely,” she purred.
Her breath on my ear was hot and moist and I felt my loins twinge while my cunt became wet at the prospect of her keeping me warm. She was gorgeous and she knew it. Linda was an expert at the art of seduction and getting people to see things her way.
“How much does it cost?” I leaned in to whisper in her ear allowing my tongue to flirtatiously lick her lobe.
“It’s on sale and an absolute steal,” she exclaimed.
Her eyes danced with a look of glee and accomplishment. I’ll never understand it. Linda can be all feminine wiles and sexiness personified one minute but mention the words “On Sale” and she becomes a rabid, bargain hunter with all thoughts of lust gone from her mind.
“Define ‘On Sale,” I said forcefully.
“Three thousand dollars and they have great financing options. Now I know it sounds like a lot. . . .”
“A lot doesn’t cover it,” I bellowed forgetting I was in a public place.
“Now, Honey, look at it as an investment. We’ll have it forever and when you look at it that way, three thousand isn’t so much.”
She was stroking my hair and gazing into my eyes with a lover’s look that said she’d make it worth my while. I was certain my hardening nipples would show through the thin white cotton of my t-shirt.
It was no more than an hour later when we arrived home with the furniture truck pulling in the drive behind us. It took four burly men to carry the hulk into our room. When they had finished they dragged themselves out to their truck. The guys looked like they had been at war with the bed and lost several battles before claiming their victory. As they left, I had to wonder how many backaches and pulled muscles there were between them.
I thought the thing was big in the showroom but in our house it was almost indescribably massive. Our master bedroom, with its ten foot vaulted ceilings, was dwarfed by the oak and iron beast. Its columns were as thick as a small tree trunks and the metal canopy nearly arched to the ceiling. There was hardly any space around the sides of the mattress and I had to check to make sure it wasn’t poking out of the windows. I wondered if there would still be room for us.
“Good grief, Linda it’s like trying to fit an elephant into a Volkswagen,” I said moving over to the giant.
Even she seemed taken aback by the sheer size of our new possession.
“Um, well sort of. . . but I think we can make it work.”
She moved towards the bed and scaled the sides to plop herself in the middle of the mattress.
“Why don’t you come over here and try it out? The pillow top is amazing.”
I moved over to the bed. The damn mattress was up to my hips. I needed a fucking ladder. It was so high up a person could get a nose bleed up there, but when I realized Linda had begun to pleasure herself, pinching her nipples and rubbing her rosy clit. I decided where there is a will there is a way.
“Hey, don’t get started without me,” I teased while taking a leap onto the beast.
“I wondered what was keeping you,” she said.
“I had to figure out how to get up here,” I said. “You should compensate me for my efforts.”
I pulled her to me, pressing her body against mine.
Linda placed her lips on mine. She opened my mouth with her tongue and I returned the gesture by slowly sucking it. She moaned and ran her hands across my body. We removed each other’s clothes seductively. . There was no need to rush. A soft rain was falling against the windows, it was the perfect weather to stay in and we had nowhere to be.
Once we were naked, Linda playfully broke from our embrace to move towards one of the massive bedposts. She sensually rubbed it with her hands while she stuck her robust buttocks outward. Her ass was divine. It was a perfectly plump, round creation that begged to be squeezed.
“These columns could be fun with a little ribbon. . . or rope,” she teased.
“How about this?” I grabbed the silk scarf Linda had been wearing as a belt from behind me on the bed.
I closed in on her and rubbed her butt with my hands. Instinctively, she hugged the post and I secured her wrists to it, making sure the sash was tight enough but not too tight. We’d never engaged in any serious bondage. I had always been into it, but I didn’t think it was her bag. One stick of my finger into her wet cunt confirmed she was excited, more excited than I had ever felt her. She moaned as I plundered her neck and shoulders with my tongue. I ground my swollen clit against her ass in a circular motion as I felt my juices flow.
With Linda unable to move, embracing the pole like a third participant, I plunged more fingers into her wet, hot pussy. I moved them around touching every inch of her love box while my free hand squeezed her breast and pinched its nipple.
“Fuck me hard,” she pleaded.
“Like this?” I rammed my hand further into the recesses of her cunt digging my nails into her breast.
“More. I need more.”
She pushed her ripe butt cheeks against my engorged clit. I was hard as a phallus and near climax.
I thrust my hips into her ass forcing her pussy against the ribbing of the bedpost. It abusively massaged her clit while I tore at her cunt with my fingers. I clamped her breast with my hand tugging at it to cause her erotic pain. She thrust herself backwards to me, unable to handle the ecstasy of my body working in cadence with the pole.
I bit the base of her neck to express my disapproval and forced her against the post. She moved her pussy in circular motions on my hand nearly enveloping it in her sticky sweetness. I moaned and clenched my jaw as her butt cheeks worked on my clit bringing me to an incredible orgasm causing my juices to slide down my thigh.
I focused my attention on bringing Linda to her climax. I worked her further onto the column’s ribbing using it to brutalize her protruding hood and moved my fingers even deeper into her until I felt her cum envelope my hand. She gasped and went limp next to me.
“I needed that so badly.”
She rubbed her forehead against the crook of my neck.
“So did I,” I said. “You’re one hell of a fuck.”
“You’re no slouch yourself. Now untie me.”
She tugged at the silken restraint.
“How do I know you won’t exact some sort of revenge?”
I gave her a look to convey my hopes that she would. I untied the scarf, handed it back to her and moved to the edge of the bed. Linda grabbed my wrist.
“Not so fast,” she said wrapping the scarf around my wrist too quickly for me to protest.
“I’m beginning to see why you thought this bed would be such a good investment,” I said surrendering to her devilish whims.







Guide to Tantric Massage

Published 03/14/2012 by Sensi Boutique


I guess the majority of us have heard about Tantric sex and massage. Had anyone asked me what it was exactly I would have giggled shyly and muttered something about gentle touching, feathers, massage and no orgasm. How wrong I was.

Tantric massage is basically just a massage. However it was created from the belief that if you are sexually happy and relaxed then your health will benefit. The Hindus describe Tantra as achieving personal growth through pleasurable existence. The massage itself does tend to cause orgasms, but these are described as a bonus rather than the aim.

Although Tantric massage does not involve actual penetrative sex, it does involve full on touching of the organs. For this reason you will not find it offered down your local health centre. You are far more likely to find it on offer in the many massage parlours in London and other major cities.

If you want to have a go with her or him indoors

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