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What your sexy dreams really mean?

Published 06/25/2012 by Sensi Boutique

Aside from being a naughty bedtime treat, your sizzling visions give  a fascinating peek into your psyche. At some point, we’ve all gotten lucky in dreamland. Whether your racy reverie is red hot(bedding Josh Hartnett) or just strange (knocking boots with the guy who signs your paycheck), there’s a reason why it popped into your head. “

Sexy dreams reveal your desires and anxieties,” says Gillian Holloway, PhD, author of Erotic Dreams.“Your subconscious uses these raw, lustful situations to sort out emotions you may not be confronting in waking life.” Sure, maybe you already know dreams serve as a portal to your psyche, but you might not realize how obscure their implications can be. In fact, your dirtiest scenes often aren’t about sex at all.

 

Oh, and those “innocent” imaginings where you’re flying in the sky or brushing your hair? Loaded with sexual meaning. While everyone’s nocturnal fantasies and day-to-day issues vary, Cosmo asked dream experts to shed light on the most common sexy shut-eye musings. Get the scoop before bed tonight.

DECODING YOUR SEX DREAMS

Getting Passionate with a Wacky Partner

A dream where you’re scorching the sheets with your boss or best buddy? Yikes. Although you may assume this scandalous vision means you harbor hot-and-heavy feelings, the actual implications are generally PG. “You probably admire a quality that person possesses and want to develop it within yourself,” explains Patricia Garfield, PhD, author of Creative Dreaming. Maybe you crave the head honcho’s success or wish you had your friend’s confidence.

On lucky nights, a Hollywood hottie, like Patrick Dempsey, might make a guest appearance. While celeb sex dreams could just be mental candy your brain has cooked up for fun, there’s probably more to it. “To singles, it’s a reminder that amazing prospects are out there, and it also clues you in to the kind of man you want,” says Garfield.

If you’re already one half of a twosome, it may point to a yearning for a trait your guy lacks or — if you’re blissfully content — affirm you’ve scored with a star-quality man. In this case, you’ve found your McDreamy.

No Place to Get Busy

You’re on a hunt for a place to have sex with your man, but problems arise that make hooking up impossible. “This suggests a loss of intimacy between you and him,” explains Holloway. “Women tend to have this dream before or after a breakup.” Although you’ve struggled to make it work, something — like mismatched goals — has prevented it.

However, if you and your man are happily coupled, the dream may indicate that there’s an obstacle you’re trying to overcome — maybe it’s a long-distance issue or even just that you’re unsure what the future holds.

Having Sex for All  to See

Right in the middle of a XXX romp, you suddenly realize you’re onstage or in a roomful of people…with all eyes on you. “If the crowd makes you self-conscious, you could be worried that people are gossiping about your relationship,” says Holloway. Think about it: Are you afraid your pals don’t like him? Did  you start dating while he was still with someone else? On the other  hand, should being in the spotlight feel deliciously naughty, it means  you have a hankering to flaunt your sizzling sex life to the world.

Cheating  on Your Man

It’s pretty unsettling to imagine getting busy  behind your guy’s back. “You usually dream of sleeping with someone else  soon after taking a major relationship step, like getting engaged,”  says Holloway. “Any uneasiness about making such a huge life change can  manifest in your dreams.” It doesn’t mean you have regrets; you’re just  experiencing normal concerns, like that you’re missing out on other  potential mates or you’ll one day discover he’s not right for you.

On the flip side: “If your man’s the unfaithful one, ask yourself if  you’re resenting him for some reason,” suggests Holloway. “This dream  can expose feelings of emotional abandonment, like maybe he’s working a  lot or you’re more serious about your bond than he is.”

DECIPHERING SUBLIMINAL SEX MESSAGES

Flying Through the Sky

You’ve had a mind-blowing booty session recently, right? That would explain why you’re soaring in your sleep. “The freewheeling rush you get from whizzing through the air could be a mental celebration of great sex,” explains Garfield. “The thrilling sensations in the dream are similar to the high you experience when you climax.” If you haven’t had a hot hookup lately, the aerial illusions may be related to an intense romantic encounter, like going out with a guy you really like or hearing the L word from your beau for the first time.

A  Man Holding a Phallic Object Appears

Okay, if you dream of a guy with a baseball bat in hand or a log hoisted under his arm, heads up. “It means there’s a man in your life whom you’re attracted to, but either you’re not fully aware of your feelings or you don’t want to admit you’re into him,” says Holloway. The object of your affection may be someone who is totally not your type or an off-limits guy, like your man’s best bud. And just so you know, the guy you’re secretly lusting after may not necessarily be the hose-wielding hottie in your reverie.

An Animal  Encounter

When a stallion makes a late-night appearance, it suggests you’re getting in touch with your wild side. “Galloping on a horse symbolizes that you feel alive, liberated, and in control sexually,” says Holloway. The rhythm and speed of riding feels similar to the steady tempo of sex (as does any rhythmic motion, from swinging to climbing stairs, notes Garfield), and being atop a huge, powerful animal echoes the exhilaration of being with a man.

Not all animal-related scenarios are positive though. If scaly reptiles give you the heebie-jeebies, then a snake nightmare (hello, talk about phallic!) points to worries you have, possibly about sex, according to Gayle Delaney, PhD, author of All About Dreams. “Also, most people connect snakes with being sneaky,” adds Garfield. “This dream could signal you’ve subconsciously picked up on the fact that a guy you’ve been seeing is using you for sex or hiding something about his sexual past.” Call it intuition…in fantasy form.

You  Suddenly Have Superlong Locks

Envisioning a Rapunzel-like mane while mid-REM serves as a carnal wake-up call — you have been putting sex on the back burner and are ready to devote due energy to satisfying your erotic drive. “Long hair represents sensuality and femininity, encouraging you to let your natural impulses rule,” says Holloway. So stop snoozing on your sex life and seek out the kind of action you’ve only, uh, dreamed of.

Originator: Cosmopolitan

As I’ve matured…

Published 06/01/2012 by Sensi Boutique

As I’ve Matured… I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in.

I’ve learned that one good turn gets most of the blankets. I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just jackasses.

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.

I’ve learned that whatever hits the fan will not be evenly distributed.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others – they are more screwed up than you think.

I’ve learned that depression is merely anger without enthusiasm.

I’ve learned that it is not what you wear; it is how you take it off.

I’ve learned that you can keep vomiting long after you think you’re finished.

I’ve learned to not sweat the petty things, and not pet the sweaty things.

I’ve learned that ex’s are like fungus, and keep coming back.

I’ve learned age is a very high price to pay for maturity.

I’ve learned that I don’t suffer from insanity, I enjoy it.

I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, unless we are celebrities.

I’ve learned that artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.

I’ve learned that 99% of the time when something isn’t working in your house, one of your kids did it.

I’ve learned that there is a fine line between genius and insanity.

I’ve learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away. And the real pains in the ass are permanent.

More then 4200 religons in the world today

Published 05/31/2012 by Sensi Boutique

So who’s is right? which one will lead me to salvation and which one to hell? what if I try to belive in say 2100 of those I might have a 50/50 chance? crap i better sign up for all of them, well except the ones who hate the gay’s. Recently I became entangled in a debate on why I’m going to hell because I am a lesbian. Now im not 100% sure but the bible wasnt created to spread hate? Why would jesus want to send the gay’s to hell? If God is the Creator than maybe we should leave the judging to him. Now I will not and never will preach my beliefs, they are mine and mine alone. If I want to believe that aliens created the universe then so be it, who are you to judge?

Now here is an idea, maybe the bible is not ment to be taken so literally? If in deed it was we are all going to hell gays and straight’s alike. Check out my blog on Why I Cant Own Canadians for more details. Why is it ok to pick and choose which scriptures are ok to follow and which ones we conveniently forget?

The main argument that I had today was if in the US we have freedom of religion and separation of church and state, why is ok to create laws based on one groups religion?

Also there is many more important issues in the world than who I marry and that JC Penny loves the gays. Some real issues could be say world hunger, global warming, how about terrorism? or the many wars around the world? what about the fact that the Celtics lost because of crappy refs?  It seems like God might have bigger issues to deal with then us dammed homo’s.

I just think more people should look at the big picture, society is not made up of one religion.

It Sucked Me Right In

Published 04/18/2012 by Sensi Boutique

Well as the title says I have been sucked in. I have not written anything I at least a week maybe more. I have been caught up in this unbelievable story. I feel its only right that I share with you this story that is sure to make you understand why I have neglected my blog.

See it all started a couple of weeks ago on March 6, 2011. It has been a slow build up that has filled all of my days to the point I do not have time for much else. Now I could go on and on about some wild story that involves the cops, a horse, a sky dive and much tequila.

unfortunately that is not the case. How I wish it was, I might not sound as nerdy. So back to March 6 we go. On this faithful day I decided to try out a new sex toy…………. no not exactly ( but that would make for a great story).

Hi my name is Nicole and I am addicted to the Mass Effect trilogy. There I said it I have finally come out. I can now be honest with all of you. It is a very hard thing to share with the world but I can be brave.

Ok now im just being silly, I do crack myself up sometimes.  However most of this is true. I have been MIA for a few weeks and have not posted a lot. Now I can imagine some of you are not familiar with the Mass Effect franchise. So let me explain. They are video games that are the most amazing games ever! It did all start on March 6 when Mass Effect 3 came out. After finishing that one I was compelled to try the other 2 previous games and that’s when I became addicted.  It is a great game that involves killing things, saving the universe from the reapers and a sexy girl on alien girl shower scene.

Some of you may have heard the story about EA and BioWare recently. They got a lot of complaints about the fact that they included gay characters and that it allows the player the OPTION   to have gay relationships. I love that EA  refused to back down on this subject. Especially since a little girl on alien girl action never hurt anyone 🙂

So now you all know my dirty little secret. I promise that I will be back to posting all sorts of wonderful things. well starting tomorrow, I still have a galaxy to save people!

Thank you for your understanding, I will have some great tips, stories and all things gay and sexy for you real soon.

hope you all have a great day

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